Trust, Love and Hope

I was sent this meme during the course of a conversation in which I tried to support someone I know and love.  She is hurting due to some relationship struggles. 



This was my response:

While I understand where you're coming from, I believe that living life guarded can be more damaging than the potential hurt. Here's my perspective:

Trust: Trust but verify. Remember to give your trust slowly; it's earned over time by repeated actions that engender trust. Trust is the foundation of meaningful relationships.

Love: Love with no agenda. Even if the other person lets you down, it doesn't negate the purity of your own feelings. Love is about giving freely and experiencing the richness of human connection.

Hope: Hope is the very thing that keeps us going. It fuels our dreams and aspirations. Yes, you risk being hurt, but you cannot close yourself to risk without closing yourself to joy.

Life is about embracing the full spectrum of experiences, both the highs and the lows. By remaining open and hopeful, we allow ourselves to experience the beauty and richness that life has to offer.

I prefer this meme!  







Comments

  1. AnonymousJuly 17, 2025 at 11:40 AM

    hi

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  2. ElysiaJuly 17, 2025 at 11:41 AM

    A heartfelt reflection—your words about trust, love, and hope truly resonate and remind us of the strength found in connection. For couples navigating life’s challenges together, professional support can make a real difference. marriage counseling in cincinnati offers a compassionate space to rebuild trust, improve communication, and rekindle hope for a stronger relationship foundation. Wishing you continued courage and unity on your journey

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