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The Part of RV Travel You Don’t See in the Pictures

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RV travel is wonderful. You have your own little home, your own bed, your own kitchen and bathroom. I love it, and these days, it’s pretty much the only way I want to travel. For the record, the two times I’ve had Covid followed a train trip and a plane trip. That hasn’t exactly increased my enthusiasm for either. LOL. Give me our RV. But I suspect people who haven’t traveled this way don’t fully appreciate how much work happens before we leave—and how much is waiting when we get home. They see the scenery. The sunsets. The interesting places we visit. What generally doesn’t make it into the pictures is the shopping, cooking, cleaning, loading, planning, laundry and unloading that make those adventures possible. Taking your home with you means taking quite a few household responsibilities along for the ride. Let’s start with the food. We eat most of our meals at the RV. Restaurants are a treat, rather than our daily meal plan. Our kitchen has a stove and microwave, but no oven. The sin...
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If We Could See What People Carry

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A few nights ago, my husband and I watched Shallow Hal . I had seen it before and thought he might enjoy it. For anyone unfamiliar with the movie, Hal has been conditioned to judge women almost entirely by their physical appearance. Then something happens that causes him to see people according to their inner beauty. A woman whose heart is kind and generous appears beautiful to him, regardless of what she looks like to everyone else. It is a funny movie, but the idea behind it stayed with me. What if we really could see inside people? Not just their inner beauty. Not simply whether someone has a good heart. What if we could also see what they are carrying? A few days after watching the movie, my husband and I had an argument about an ice pack. Yes. An ice pack. It sounds ridiculous because it was ridiculous. Except, of course, it wasn’t really about the damned ice pack. My husband and I rarely argue. We may disagree, but we are generally very good at communicating wit...
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The Quiet Fade

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  I was resisting chaos disguised as innovation. Dedication For Jo, Rob, and Mandi — the ones who walked beside me in the years that mattered most. ------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------ 🎸 The Rock Star Years (2001–2014) I didn’t just land a job in 2001 — I landed the job. The one I wanted. The one I walked into with certainty. I still remember the finance manager asking, “What do you think?” and me looking him straight in the eye and saying, “I think you should hire me.” And I meant it with every fiber of my being. For years, I made sure they knew they’d made the right decision. I started out processing payroll and setting up benefits for about 20–25 hospitals. Within six months, that number nearly doubled — and I took it on like a rock star. I built systems, created processes, and kept the error rate on checks next to zero...
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Skittles: The Dog I Never Thought I Could Have Again

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  “I didn’t share this story at first because I didn’t know how it would end. Now I do.” On December 11, 2025, a small, skittish Rat Terrier showed up on our property. We live in a rural area where dog dumping happens far too often, so at first I assumed he was another heartbreaking case of that. He had no chip, no collar, and despite efforts from both me and animal control, no owner ever came forward. I’ve had Rat Terriers before. I knew the stance, the eyes, the “I’ve chosen you” energy. And once he decided I was his person, that was that. We adopted him. Some of you know pieces of this story, but for those who don’t — or who need a refresher — I want to share why this moment was so huge for me. Why I Thought I Could Never Have a Dog Again For years, I believed I could never safely have a dog. Not because I didn’t want one, but because of something I never imagined could be dangerous: topical estrogen . My first dog, Ranger, was sickly his entire life. I started topical estrogen ...
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The Audacity to Admit I Have a 10 Gallon Tank

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  Audacity: Not the loud or reckless version. The quiet courage to live fully on my own terms, trust my instincts, live with intention, and follow resonance even when it’s unfamiliar. The willingness to step into life with self‑trust, intuition, and a little fire. The part of me that says yes to experiences that expand me. I lived that way once. I’m living that way again. She’s back — and truth is, she never left. She’s just rising again .                                           I’ve carried the motorcycle gas-tank analogy with me for years. It started as a simple way to explain why I often felt out of sync with people — why conversations that seemed meaningful to others felt thin to me, why I could sit in the quiet corners of my mind for hours while others skimmed the surface of their own. Some people run on two‑ or three‑gallon tanks. Most run on five...
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🛕 Cloudy Yesterday, Sunny Today: A Ride Toward Release

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“Even in full sun, quiet truths can still shine.”  🗺️ Intention Taped to My Tank I set out this morning with a route taped to my gas tank and a quiet intention tucked in my heart. The destination: the Hindu Temple of Florida . (short video here: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GKRMxifpHSE). Not my faith, but a space I hoped would hold my reverence. I wasn’t sure what I’d find—or what I’d feel—but I knew I needed movement, meaning, and maybe a little mercy. 🦕 Detours, Dinosaurs, and Daylight Moons The ride didn’t go exactly as planned. I missed a few turns, took the long way around, and passed a dinosaur outside MOSI. It made me laugh—symbolic of me, the almost-extinct HRIS analyst, still rumbling down the road on a hot pink, purple, and teal bike. Not extinct yet. The moon was visible in the daylight. That lifted me. A reminder that even in full sun, quiet truths can still shine. 🛕 Entering Sacred Space When I arrived at the temple, the morning ceremony was over. That felt like ...
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When Both Sides Proved My Point – Right wing/Left wing – Still the Same Bird

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  I didn’t set out to referee the culture war. But lately, the circus has been loud enough to rattle the windows of my quiet acreage. A meme popped up in my feed—one of those quote cards designed to trigger outrage. It claimed Rep. Jasmine Crockett said, “Just because someone has committed a crime, it doesn’t make them a criminal.” My first thought? No way she said that. It’s too absurd, even for politics. So I did what most people don’t: I checked. Turns out, she did say it—at least in a moment that appears unscripted and clumsy. Whether it was a verbal stumble, a legal nuance lost in translation, or just a bad day at the mic, the quote was real. But the way it was being used? That’s where the real absurdity lies. The far-right was gleefully sharing it, slicing it out of context like a trophy. The same far-right that recently exploded over the left doing the exact same thing to Charlie Kirk’s remarks about guns. “Selective editing!” they cried. “Dishonest framing!” And yet her...
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